Sadly I see many clients who find it difficult to let go of and move on from past relationship mistakes.

They believe they’re ready to move on from past relationship mistakes and find love again.

But their subconscious mind has other ideas – so they self-sabotage. 

Because, essentially, the subconscious mind wants to do whatever it can to keep you safe.

It spots situations that remind it of things past that weren’t in your best interests and sends up a red flag warning you to back away before the same negative thing happens again.

Except it’s not always helpful response.

Because not all past relationships play out as an echo of a previous one.

Alertness is important so you don’t get into situations that wouldn’t benefit you. But if you remain closed and in protection mode without allowing any small chink in your armour to open up to new, more positive opportunities, you will remain stuck in the past relationship, in scared mode, repeating a pattern of pushing away prospective new partners.

Do you recognise yourself in this description of past relationship mistakes?

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In this video, I talk more about why your past relationship mistakes could be holding you back from finding love again…

  • this protection mechanism,
  • how the brain responds to imagined scenarios
  • the neuroscience behind what’s happening
  • a simple management tool for when the negative thoughts hit
  • why even negative behaviour patterns can be retained as a habit
Why your past relationship mistakes could be holding you back from finding love again
Why your past relationship mistakes could be holding you back from finding love again
Why your past relationship mistakes could be holding you back from finding love again
Why your past relationship mistakes could be holding you back from finding love again
Why your past relationship mistakes could be holding you back from finding love again

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Why your past relationship mistakes could be holding you back from finding love again
Why your past relationship mistakes could be holding you back from finding love again
Why your past relationship mistakes could be holding you back from finding love again
Why your past relationship mistakes could be holding you back from finding love again